Oh wow. Worst thing I think I've heard yet. Granted, through my miscarriages I've always been happy to have a friend who take me out to get sloshed when I'm ready, but the booze definitely brings on the "helpful" comments.
Right?! It's like a double-edged sword. Makes me feel better yes, but also could bring on the stupid comments and also tears (if you're me). And is there anything more embarrassing than balling at a bar?!