Here's another one from Lady E:
After her mother's choice response, she told a friend/coworker about her miscarriage... (we all know the coworker/friend relationship is fraught with landmines...)
And this person says, "Ugh. I can't imagine another little one."
What I wish E could have said in return: "That's soooo funny. No one actually asked you your opinion. You're like Bette Midler in Beaches, 'Enough about me, what do you think of me?!' Except you're not nearly as cool. Instead of funny, it's annoying. Was it your little one you lost? No? Interesting. Shut it."